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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 22.06.2025 05:09

How does one succeed in life?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What I need from you?

Procrastinates a lot.

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Does not procrastinate.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Ask yourself:

That's it for today.

How do I run away? I'm 15 and live in Oklahoma.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Making more friends is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Hangs out with loser friends.